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Physical dangers: Those dangers or inconveniences that threaten our physical integrity, our survival, or our property (injuries, illnesses, assaults, robberies).Non physical dangers: Those dangers or inconveniences that threaten our psychological well-being.At the forefront of the non physical dangers are the situations where we feel we run the risk of being rejected, unloved, abandoned, betrayed, deceived, despised, and/or disdained.
Anxiety manifests itself particularly strongly when we believe that—in order for us to find happiness in our lives—we absolutely need to be loved, approved, and accepted by some other people. And as our happiness is ultimately what we care about most—regardless of how each of [url=http://www.piktor.fr/abercrombie-france/]abercrombie france[/url] us defines this word—it is clear that anything that seems to threaten an element we see as absolutely necessary to our happiness will trigger a burst of anxiety proportional to the [url=http://www.jb-pr.co.uk]Hollister UK[/url] impending danger or inconvenience.
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But what is love? That seems to be a very good question to ask ourselves!
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Now that we have decided to abandon the unrealistic goal of being loved, approved, and accepted by everyone, we can still feel bouts of anxiety if we continue to hold the belief that we absolutely need the love, approval, and acceptance of certain people in order to be happy. As a matter [url=http://www.pollinate.it/category/moncler-sito-ufficiale/]moncler sito ufficiale[/url] of fact, not only does everything change, but the characteristics we demonstrate when we are 20 years old may not be present anymore at the age of 40—despite the help of cosmetic surgery. On top of that, [url=http://www.renaissancedestoiles.fr]louboutin[/url] the tastes and preferences of others are constantly changing and evolving with time—just like ours!—and what pleases them in December may very well displease them in June!
Finally, how can we cope with all of this and spare ourselves from feeling these oppressive doses of anxiety?
A part of the problem is solved when we fully realize that we really do not need the uninterrupted, permanent, and exclusive love, approval, and acceptance of anyone to be happy. And to achieve that, it is particularly [url=http://www.lotogame.fr/louboutin-pas-cher/]louboutin pas cher[/url] useful for us to understand the various [url=http://www.diecastlinks.co.uk]hollister uk[/url] meanings of [url=http://www.mquin.com/pjsdoudoune.php]parajumpers pas cher[/url] the word "need" and to draw specific distinctions between [url=http://www.davidhabchy.com]barbour outlet[/url] those different meanings. That is what I suggest we explore together in a future article.

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